If your child snores loudly, pauses while breathing, or wakes up gasping, they might have sleep apnea. It’s more common than you think and can affect school performance, mood, and growth.
Watch for these clues: loud or frequent snoring, restless tossing, mouth breathing, daytime fatigue, trouble concentrating, and frequent headaches. Some kids also have a dry mouth in the morning or wake up with a sore throat.
It’s easy to chalk these signs up to a busy kid, but if they happen regularly, it’s worth a closer look. Keep a sleep diary for a week – note bedtime, any pauses you hear, and how your child feels during the day.
The most common cause is enlarged tonsils or adenoids that block the airway when they’re relaxed during sleep. Obesity can add pressure to the throat, making breathing harder. Sometimes a narrow jaw or facial structure plays a role.
Allergies and chronic nasal congestion also tighten the airways. If your child has frequent colds, asthma, or allergies, those could be feeding into the problem.
The first move is to talk to your pediatrician. They’ll ask about symptoms and may refer you to a sleep specialist. A home sleep test (a small monitor that tracks breathing) can give useful data, but many doctors prefer an overnight study at a sleep lab for the most accurate picture.
Don’t be afraid of the lab – kids are usually monitored with comfy sensors while they sleep in a quiet room. The results tell whether apnea episodes happen and how severe they are.
If enlarged tonsils or adenoids are the culprit, a simple surgery often fixes the problem. Most kids feel better within weeks.
For overweight children, gradual weight loss through balanced meals and regular activity can reduce apnea events dramatically. Even small changes like cutting sugary drinks help.
When surgery isn’t enough or isn’t needed, doctors may suggest a CPAP machine – a mask that delivers steady air pressure to keep the airway open. Modern machines are quiet and portable, so kids get used to them fast.
Other options include dental devices that reposition the jaw, nasal steroids for allergy‑related swelling, and lifestyle tweaks like keeping bedroom humidity up and avoiding secondhand smoke.
Establish a calming bedtime routine: dim lights, a warm bath, and a consistent sleep schedule. Keep the room cool (around 65°F) and use a humidifier if air is dry.
Elevate your child’s head slightly with a pillow wedge – it can reduce snoring. Encourage nose breathing during the day by teaching them to close their mouth while talking or playing.
If allergies are an issue, wash bedding in hot water weekly and use hypoallergenic covers on pillows and mattresses.
If symptoms persist after treatment, if your child’s grades drop, or if you notice new breathing difficulties, call the pediatrician. Ongoing monitoring ensures the chosen solution stays effective as your child grows.
Sleep apnea isn’t something you have to live with forever. With early spotting and the right steps, most kids get back to restful nights and brighter days.